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Science, Culture, & Humanities / On the Education of Boys
« on: August 21, 2013, 07:24:08 AM »
I came across this article this morning:
http://ideas.time.com/2013/08/19/school-has-become-too-hostile-to-boys/
Christina Hoff Sommers is an academic and advocate of boys. Her first book "Who Stole Feminism" is an objective analysis of the source materials used in certain arguments. She is not deprecating to women and believes that a failure to raise boys is actually a society and a women's issue.
I raised two boys and a step son who was slightly autistic and pegged with being ADHD. Education for boys has always drawn my interest.
Sommers is basicallly saying that they way schools are today punishes boys for their basic nature. She cites instances of boys who are very young being expelled for playing cops and robbers.
My own experience with schools as a teacher and as a parent are that school policy is usually based on minimizing problems and keeping things on an even keel. Very little actual policy goes into what might be best for kids though I know that there are a decent number of teachers who see such things and want to address them.
Its good to have an alternative plan.
I thought I would throw it out there....what would a school look like if it were designed to meet the needs of boys?
I spent a year homeschooling my two sons. In that year we focused on the practical skills...reading, writing, math. That took about 2 to 4 hours per day. Then we had adventures. We explored the woods, we went on canoe trips, we did martial arts, learned about firearms, archery, we climbed an old growth douglas fir tree to the very top using rock climbing gear and had lunch while we watched the forest. The boys built things out of wood. One project was to build a bridge that I could walk across using some logs and rope. We raised rabbits and they got to see what sex was all about by breeding them. This was by the way, hilarious. In that year, one of my boys discovered that he liked math. He advanced 2 years in math that year. My other sons discovered that he liked writing and art. He now works for an animated movie company as an animator/illustrator.
Part of the secret to education is identifying the gifts that kids have and simply saying "You are good at that" and then helping them to discover what they can do with who and what they are. The longer I taught, the more I realized that beyond the three Rs, the actual subject matter taught is almost superfluous when compared to the importance of getting kids to value their gifts and show them how to trust their own instincts about how and what they ought to be focusing on.
One idea in education is to mitigate weaknesses instead of building strengths. Practically speaking, when a kid is not so good in math, public schools have a system that acknowledges that to some extent and then tries to fix the problem. So a kid who may indeed have gifts may fly under the radar after being labeled with a problem. Very rarely does a parent teacher conference convene to discuss the discovery of a kids abilities in order to create a plan to allow the kid to engage in his passion.
This is true for boys and girls.
When it comes to boys, innate gifts are varied and diverse. In some respects I think that men have to go through a process similar to women where they question every role or preconceived notion of what they think they are in favor of discovering who they actually are. This was a large part of the original positive notion behind feminism. Throw off the roles and be who you are.
If men did that, they would discover a greater diversity in themselves, greater freedom to be. They would also be able to honor innate male characteristics...protector, provider alongside other skills and talents that are unique to the individual. I do not think that this happens now to any great extent. The approach in schools in particular are to mostly lump boys into a large preconception of what they are and unfortunately that is often filled with negative slants.
I know from my homeschooling experiment that boys need a huge amount of time to run their bags off. My sons barely stopped to breath all afternoon and during our adventures. If I gave them that, then they could strongly focus on the skill development that I felt was important as well. Though in my sons cases even within the basic skills they differed in their desire to focus and this did not hurt either one of them in the end. They each had their passions and we ran with those.
If you have strengths and weaknesses and you have X much time and energy to devote which will result in an increase in 10% in either the strength or the weakness, which would you focus on? If you focus on a weakness perhaps that weakness is at 70%. Then an addition 10% of effort will result in 80% and quite possibly a kid whose eyes are rolling into the back of their head with boredom. If you focus on their strengths, then an additional 10% of effort will raise a kid from 90 to 99.99999%. You get the idea. When schools focus on mitigating weaknesses, they are normalizing but that normalization is not necessarily what is best for the kid.
When they literally, as a result of policy turn away from certain kinds of passions and interests and behaviors that make many boys thrive they prevent boys from finding their passions. This part of the problem is not unique to boys but there is much more interest in helping girls to "be all that they can be" right now than to do the same for boys.
Cheers,
Karsk
http://ideas.time.com/2013/08/19/school-has-become-too-hostile-to-boys/
Christina Hoff Sommers is an academic and advocate of boys. Her first book "Who Stole Feminism" is an objective analysis of the source materials used in certain arguments. She is not deprecating to women and believes that a failure to raise boys is actually a society and a women's issue.
I raised two boys and a step son who was slightly autistic and pegged with being ADHD. Education for boys has always drawn my interest.
Sommers is basicallly saying that they way schools are today punishes boys for their basic nature. She cites instances of boys who are very young being expelled for playing cops and robbers.
My own experience with schools as a teacher and as a parent are that school policy is usually based on minimizing problems and keeping things on an even keel. Very little actual policy goes into what might be best for kids though I know that there are a decent number of teachers who see such things and want to address them.
Its good to have an alternative plan.
I thought I would throw it out there....what would a school look like if it were designed to meet the needs of boys?
I spent a year homeschooling my two sons. In that year we focused on the practical skills...reading, writing, math. That took about 2 to 4 hours per day. Then we had adventures. We explored the woods, we went on canoe trips, we did martial arts, learned about firearms, archery, we climbed an old growth douglas fir tree to the very top using rock climbing gear and had lunch while we watched the forest. The boys built things out of wood. One project was to build a bridge that I could walk across using some logs and rope. We raised rabbits and they got to see what sex was all about by breeding them. This was by the way, hilarious. In that year, one of my boys discovered that he liked math. He advanced 2 years in math that year. My other sons discovered that he liked writing and art. He now works for an animated movie company as an animator/illustrator.
Part of the secret to education is identifying the gifts that kids have and simply saying "You are good at that" and then helping them to discover what they can do with who and what they are. The longer I taught, the more I realized that beyond the three Rs, the actual subject matter taught is almost superfluous when compared to the importance of getting kids to value their gifts and show them how to trust their own instincts about how and what they ought to be focusing on.
One idea in education is to mitigate weaknesses instead of building strengths. Practically speaking, when a kid is not so good in math, public schools have a system that acknowledges that to some extent and then tries to fix the problem. So a kid who may indeed have gifts may fly under the radar after being labeled with a problem. Very rarely does a parent teacher conference convene to discuss the discovery of a kids abilities in order to create a plan to allow the kid to engage in his passion.
This is true for boys and girls.
When it comes to boys, innate gifts are varied and diverse. In some respects I think that men have to go through a process similar to women where they question every role or preconceived notion of what they think they are in favor of discovering who they actually are. This was a large part of the original positive notion behind feminism. Throw off the roles and be who you are.
If men did that, they would discover a greater diversity in themselves, greater freedom to be. They would also be able to honor innate male characteristics...protector, provider alongside other skills and talents that are unique to the individual. I do not think that this happens now to any great extent. The approach in schools in particular are to mostly lump boys into a large preconception of what they are and unfortunately that is often filled with negative slants.
I know from my homeschooling experiment that boys need a huge amount of time to run their bags off. My sons barely stopped to breath all afternoon and during our adventures. If I gave them that, then they could strongly focus on the skill development that I felt was important as well. Though in my sons cases even within the basic skills they differed in their desire to focus and this did not hurt either one of them in the end. They each had their passions and we ran with those.
If you have strengths and weaknesses and you have X much time and energy to devote which will result in an increase in 10% in either the strength or the weakness, which would you focus on? If you focus on a weakness perhaps that weakness is at 70%. Then an addition 10% of effort will result in 80% and quite possibly a kid whose eyes are rolling into the back of their head with boredom. If you focus on their strengths, then an additional 10% of effort will raise a kid from 90 to 99.99999%. You get the idea. When schools focus on mitigating weaknesses, they are normalizing but that normalization is not necessarily what is best for the kid.
When they literally, as a result of policy turn away from certain kinds of passions and interests and behaviors that make many boys thrive they prevent boys from finding their passions. This part of the problem is not unique to boys but there is much more interest in helping girls to "be all that they can be" right now than to do the same for boys.
Cheers,
Karsk